Long story short, today my W gave me her intentions of filing for D. This was partly in response to me asking for my dog back and also the course that we seemed to be heading down.
"I know this email probably gives you the same punch in the stomach that it gives me. Sorry for that. But we can't avoid it forever. Since its clear we aren't getting back together I think it's time to finalize things.
As for Woofie I have one last question for you since you've made it clear that you want him. Do you think that it's best for him to be with you and thats what he would prefer? Honestly? Or is your decision coming from your own needs and desires?"
I'm going to be speaking with an attorney this week just to make sure my t's are crossed and i's dotted.
My DB adventure will continue, I know this is just a small blip in a large road. Thank you wholehearted to everyone on this board for your encouragement, love, and support. This has been a living hell made bearable only by all of you.
Even more thanks to Wonka, 25, and all of the vets that have chimed in to keep me on track. I'm going to live an amazing life, one so much richer than the I was experiencing in my M. Perhaps it will be with my W, perhaps not, but it's still going to be incredible.
My plan is also to stay on this board and keep working the DB process, and continue learning as much as I can.
PP
Last edited by PigPen; 08/05/1509:37 PM.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
