V. I would be happy to mentor you. You are an amazing person and deserve the same in return. I have had to learn and read and learn and grow. Take the time you have now to learn about yourself. What it is you want out of life? Why is it you chose someone broken? ( I have made many men my project) Learning to recognise the red flags and not ignore them. Once you are in lust or love with someone or judgement is clouded. It's catching those red flags before you are emotionally attached.
I believe everything in life happens for a reason. We just don't always understand what that reason is at the time. We learn and grow from every experince. Often the lesson will return to us until we have learned it. The only one I have control over is me. I stumble and go backwards sometimes we all do. We are often our own worst self critics. We have to be a friend to ourselves first. It's not being selfish to be self caring. With your good nature and fun personality you will have no problem finding someone to share your life with. Take your time and be choosy.
For now enjoy this period of growth as it is a stepping stone into your future. I believe if we just start living the life we want we will attract what we need. You know you are on the right path when things around you start falling into place. When there are too many road blocks it's time to stop and reevaluate.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
