Uncertain and vexing times - must stay on DB point

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I apologise I missed your post and haven't replied.

So a few questions if I may?

What is the reason for moving?

Primarily moving for work. But also for the family. We spent a year abroad which was the best year of our lives. Coming back, seems to have a sparked a lot of our disconnect. Beyond working extremely long hours, we were so much happier when we were abroad. Including the kids, they keep asking when we can go back.

I work freelance at the moment. I could have taken another job here. Instead, I'm exploring a more permanent job in the new location, one that will give us the proper visa to stay long term.

So, the long way to answer your question - we're moving for work, for a better family lifestyle, and for a bit of a fresh start.

Do you know or have a new base in January?

We know the area we want to live and have been exploring what's available. Since we won't move until January, most of that exploration is fruitless since they won't be available by the time we get closer to moving. I don't yet have a job, but am talking with various companies and planning out who I want to work with.

There is a lot of fear mentioned in your post, have you seen and discussed this with an IC?

Nope. I have considered going to IC, but the timing based on work has not lent itself to being something I can get to.

The organisation around the children what has that involved?

Not a whole lot to report on that front. They are excited to move. We're excited to get them back in the local schools out there. We've been having fun with them.