Wonka, I sure am going to try with the GAL. I have to start packing because my soon to be XW wants the house on the market next week. She is moving quickly, house check, divorce paper check. She will be gone to her brothers in New Mexico till next tues and she will be moving some of her stuff down to LA the same day. I am reeling right now. I feel so numb, like I am living outside my body and this isn't my life. I talked with my IC last night and she said from what I have told her my W displays a lot of the characteristics for borderline personality disorder. This made me feel a little better because I know its not all my fault like how she is making it. Its a reason for her being so cold, emotionless, detached..pretty much like we did not spend the last 5 yrs of our lives together.
M: 32 W: 35 M 2 1/2 T 4 1/2 same sex couple W "unhappy" April 2015 D first asked for mid May 2015 2nd D end of June 2015 D papers in hand, just have to sign Start of piecing 8/20/15 A confirmed 1/2/15