Yeah, whether I should or not. No, can't do it without it meaning something... his words have said (months ago) that it was about "testing the waters w/me and also just physical release/relief". He knows it doesn't work that way for me... and when we did recently, it wasn't just physical... And yes, scared of feeling used. And what you said about feeling emotionally connected is why it is so confusing. For me, ML would be something of a 180 or "acting as if"... I think it would meet some of his emotional needs... but, it could also be something else. Yes, this is one of the ways he shows he loves me... and I think he can't quite say it but still wants to show it. UGH.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
