One thing about post BD and sobriety is that my gut has gotten a lot more in tune.
After asking for my dog back I had a feeling that my W's response would be to bring up filing. And she has. I'll post some of the email later to get Wonka's take on a response, but essentially she asked for us to start a Summary Dissolution. I'm not sure if we qualify for it given some of our financial aspects, but her intention is clear - the time has come to finalize everything.
She did ask me again if I was taking our dog's needs into account or just playing off of my own needs. One sentence at the end of a longer email.
Probably in my best interest to speak with an attorney huh? We don't have any property together or children but we both have businesses. Mine was started prior to us getting married and hers was started during out marriage.
Not the best day of the week for me, but not as crushing as it would have been without all of the detaching of late.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17