Dys, I am glad you are in a good place with your past addictions. Have you done anything good for yourself today? You are in the early stages of this, it is probably going to take a long time to figure out what is going on with her, she might not even know. In the meantime you need to take care of yourself. Start with the small things- get some exercise, eat a healthy meal, talk to a friend. This is hard, I know. Nobody has the answers, but until things become clearer you need to take care of you. Keep reading. Keep posting. Hang in there.