We are spending a great deal of time together and This seems to push her farther away. She has always spent more time on the phone with her sister than talking to me but now its ridiculous.
Have you read Divorce Remedy? If not, get it ASAP. Have you read Cadet's threads he gave you? These are important. If you were reading the threads, you should have seen that spending more time with her is not the answer. It is pressure to her and pushes her away.
I think her excessive phone talk probably tells the story. It's not all sister conversations. The fact she can't give you more reasons for wanting a D sounds suspicious.
If her mother is encouraging her to leave you, that is a strong influence on your W.
You need a plan.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
