I've been reading about the MLC on here for a couple months. Not that I am an expert by any means. Initially I thought we were growing distant because she was having an MLC, but I have come to believe the MLC lead to her affair. Not that I am a perfect husband or father, but I haven't been able to find out what was missing that could have driven her to her affair. I've tried to focus on myself and the kids while letting her know that I would support her through this.

I'm done trying to cover for her and letting her pretend things are fine. I'm going to be sleeping in our bed and ask that she sleep somewhere else.

I did make a demand (shouldn't have done that) that things would have to change because I wouldn't be able to continue living like this.

I'm ordering DB and DR.

M: 36 yo
W: 36 yo
S: 7
D: 4
M: 13 yrs
BD: 6/14 (??)
PE Confirmed 7/15 (4 months)
The road to recovery starts now