Arghhhh!!! I called W to deal with kids issues and tax issues. And W dropped another bomb on me - om is moving in with her on September 1st. He is moving into the 2nd bedroom being left by d18, who is going off to college.
I asked her if she had done a criminal background check on om? She said she knew some bad stuff in his past, and I rattled it all off for her om has 2 recent dui's; he has 3 convictions for anger related offenses. I asked W to please not let him drive our children. She agreed.
W told me she was not happy with this. But om has recently been thru rehab, and she told me if has 1 drop of alcohol he will be out of there. But b/c of her financial position, she needed someone to split the rent with her.
I know I can't control W. But to have this person around my s13, I am just scared for him. I just feel numb. Again.
