While I completely understand the STFU principle, there are times when you should NOT STFU and you used that beautifully, as you do everything, V. You are amazing!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids