Curious.. Petition paperwork is being processed. If I am trying LRT, which means I am DB ing and trying to save the marriage, how should I respond to the petition???

Options
1. Do nothing and forfeit my opportunity to protect my self
2. Petition for dismissal based on the idea I don't think it's irreconcilable
3. Go full tilt, get a lawyer and start making my own financial demands

M 15 years, 2 children, separated 3 months.. WAW