So my friends its been a long journey for me and my struggles and as I listened to the vets on here back in 2011 (not always but I tried) life did get better for me as I continued with my C and became a man only a fool would leave.. All the while watching the XW falter at each step. So after I became re-engaged with my children and its better than ever, I also met and married another wonderful woman, going on one year.. So this post is about XW and how her OM was the bomb and after all this time they are no longer. I do have a pretty good relationship with XW now, and she has told me what a mistake she has made putting all of her eggs in one basket (OM) So as the vets will tell all the new posters on here LBS's that it does get much better and you can move on and be a better person for yourself and if your lucky a new person in your life. I watched in the shadows and my xw's world shattered. It was not a very nice picture for sure..... She has admitted to me that she now understands her role in our demise and that I was not totally to blame. So even though I did not get back with her, my journey was hard and I was focused, I realized with the help of this board, my c and medication that there was a path to becoming a better version of myself.It can be done and each of you newcomers should listen and post often as to get a grip on what life has to offer you. Everyone on here keeps saying that you can only change your self and no one else. And when you do change make them stick, if you can truly look inside and tell yourself that this old version of me will never come back, I promise you will be rewarded in your life.. As all of us will backslide on occasion, ( I know I did alot)push through it and take notice not to do it again... Just felt like posting this today. I don't post often anymore, but I am on here reading everyday, its like a hard reminder and therapy all in one when I read about other LBS's.
