I've tried to make it clear that I'm willing/ready to forgive if he is interested in it. Seems like that has to happen.
I've long since given up trying to be convince him of anything, so I'm not sure if I'm sending any messages of wanting to win/be right. But who knows how clear that is at this point. I'm already at the "acceptance" stage, etc.
Repentance tells me that I matter - that it is over & there is hope that it will not happen again/any more. I do try to maintain PMA and let go of the anger, etc. So what am I missing? What would the right thing to do now?
And I'm still confused about the ML question....
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
