Quick journaling;
Been a solid couple of days. No R talk from STBX since Friday. Interactions have been business-like. Yesterday, STBX, along with the kids and MIL, went house shopping. This action combined with filling out my financial affidavit discourages me a bit.

Then, I think about my journey thus far and my needs in a R. I deserve respect and honesty. If STBX won't or can't satisfy these needs, then D is the best option for both of us. I know I will be ok and this brings me hope.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15