Sorry Wii. With the way the dating culture has turned it is just not the best time to be in the game. There is no real dating anymore with this "ghosting" crap, hook-ups, everything done online and through text.... It's like no one respects the opposite sex or actual courtship anymore.
Have you tried a meet-up group? A hobby group without the intention of dating may turn up some pleasant results. I bet you have would have a great time in a photography group and you might end up meeting a lady who shares your passion
