Thanks for the advice, Jedi.

I have moved my thread over to MLC.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2594161#Post2594161

M: 38 W: 37
T: 20 M: 19
Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12
BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out)
PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM)
Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015