legally separating

[jedi]

I hate to say this, but this is why snooping is really frowned upon here. It's a no win situation because either you find out something that's going to just hurt more, or you get caught snooping when there wasn't anything to find and end up where you are now.

Everyone makes mistakes, so this one thing isn't going to be the end of your M. Learn from this and move on, dont give it any more head space.

GAL is great, but are you looking inward as well and trying to become the best BeckyB that you can?

Even if you'd found out OW was moving in, how would that really change anything right now for what you need to do? Let all that be what it is for now, it needs to run it's own course.

Time to really start focusing on you!