I also want to add that I've always given her plenty of attention. I'm VERY emotionally supportive with her. She has occasional panic attacks and would wake me up to help calm her down. I enjoyed knowing that I was able to help her through those times. I used to have them, they are horrid.
I always complimented her, always. I can count the times she has ever really made me feel wanted or special. It's pretty one-sided in that area. Every once in a while (once a year maybe) I would bring up how it hurts me that she never compliments me (I dont think I am ugly guy) or really show any affection and she either tells me she just isn't that type of person or gets mad and tells me I expect her to baby talk me 24/7? No, not at all. Just a "You look nice today" once a month would have me on cloud 9.