In order to give the post from Zues I referenced above its fair justice, I'll re-post it here. Ghost, perhaps this can help you like it did me....
Originally Posted By: Zues126
Look- if I told you nothing you did or said would ever change your W, your M was DOOMED, and you would never get her back...would 'how dark to be' still be your biggest thing? Or would you be like 'that [censored], looks like my biggest thing is making myself the best person I can be to have the brightest future on my own I can'?
See the difference? Focus on you. For real.
Me:36 W:30 M:2.75 T:7 BD: 4/2015 ILYBNILWY: 5/2015 W Moved Out: 5/2015 W filed for D: 7/2015