Ten months came as school starts this month and not done until May we agreed when he asked me to stay in March we wouldn't move them durrin school so if I'm not out in 3 weeks they are in school plus I will need tax return in 7 months to leave! I am not sure about assistance as I barely qualify for insurance help! I know when he was working seasonal and we claimed my income and only D8 we did not qualify! As for housing assistance I live In a town of about 2000 people only three sets of apartments and no assistance available for them almost all are one bedroom! It's not an option to leave the community as his family is my only support and helps with D8! Grandma teaches at high scho so if emergency let out snow day ect she goes there! I have no family around to help! The district she is in is the best district around also! As for child support ect I do not receive anyone her real dad is in and out of prison and refuses to prove his paternity which is probably better for D! She has a man (my ex) that is her 'dad' by he does a lot for me pays cell phone bill lends money pays half activities and school everything and more than he should and he is not even her real father! Ni have sole custody as she is not H daughter! She is mine from a previous R! I would of course allow H to see her and the other two girls! As for would I still see other two yea! I will attend all holidays and. Birthdays H family has as that is also my family or at least the only family I consider! So even if he re married I would be at Xmas and parties there would be no separation in extended family that would all stay the same! I know confusing huh?! D7's mom and I are really close we talk about whTs going on ect she would have no problem with me seeing her! D4 mom does not care for me therefore she would not let me have her on her time but I'm sure H would he wants them to remain sisters and is best friends! We have always been best friends and can't live without each other as in actually want to be together when we are apart! All this fighting is killing even the friendship! So in short we would still be around each other a lot and kids would still be together a lot
