Hello

[714Dad]

V, she did say she was depressed when she left and she seemed to be down for some time in the past month(s).

"I'm not happy, i don't know if i'll be happy again." that was another of her comments.

so again, she said she was depressed and seems to have been crying a few times i've seen her since she left.

when she calls to talk (about the girls - a gift, schedule, etc.) she always seems to transition into something that she seems to want to argue about, or to convince me that something i did in the past was wrong, or that i didn't support her, or that i was bad. my IC was puzzled by this and wondered if it was her trying to assuage her guilt over the decision to divorce.

i don't know. as said, it's been a little over a month since she's been gone. so i feel like it's still okay for me to say i'm in a haze.

detaching is so hard. and that's where i am right now. it's really awful.

thanks V for the input. any morsel of wisdom is super appreciated.