What's the rush to get into your next relationship Beagely? Why not let this one run it's full course, take along break to just be with yourself, heal from this loss, gather your strength, learn a bit about what you like and don't like and then start that next chapter.
Usually the rush to find a new relationship is just a bandaid on the wound that's causing you so much hurt right now. Don't fool yourself, you're not ready to even begin thinking about a new relationship.
Think of putting a pretty little bandaid on top of a shotgun wound to the chest. Sure it's nice to look at, even feels good to touch and be out in town with, but it's not going to help. You'll just end up bleeding right through it.
Sorry to be graphic, but slow down my friend. Azzork is the master at asking good questions. Think about each one for a few days. He's spot on.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17