The key paragraph in the going dark thread is: its what you do whilst you are waiting for your S to recover from A, MLC depression.........
It doesn't seem from your writing your W is wayward or MLC or depressed. Just not happy in her R. This is where DB comes in, DR book is about this very thing, it was written for you and with your sitch in mind.
If that's the case then Sandi guidelines are those you need, to work on you.
My 2c worth.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 08/04/1509:40 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW