Hey heavy I think I saw at the beginning of this thread you said something about people who have traumatic childhoods are more likely to have a MLC. My wife (soon to be x) I think fits that description. She had a horrible childhood that continued into young adult. She is only 35, but I feel like she fits into a lot of the criteria.

Also I might have missed it somewhere, but did you and your wife get D?

M: 32 W: 35
M 2 1/2 T 4 1/2 same sex couple
W "unhappy" April 2015
D first asked for mid May 2015
2nd D end of June 2015
D papers in hand, just have to sign
Start of piecing 8/20/15
A confirmed 1/2/15