Would you rather that W abandoned the kids and have them fend for themselves??
I think you are just annoyed that money is going to a babysitter than other areas that you deem more important according to your own values/expectations. I still stand by the fact that W did the right and responsible thing in getting a babysitter.
Count your blessings, BE. There have been too many horror stories here and IRL of parents abandoning their kids while they go off partying.
Yeah, you are missing the compassion chip here....and give thanks to God that a babysitter was available and able to watch YOUR kids.