"In fact, now that I've written that last sentence I realised that it was my need to fix things taking over and all I need is to reassert my patience."
Yes, I think we all have urges to do SOMETHING and I have learned to notice these and let them pass. Progress indeed for a recovering fixer.
Good that you are realising this. I don't think I have ever regretted doing nothing in my sitch.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus