Hi Heavy, I think there is much focus on acceptance on the site. But only because fighting a divorce is more likely to expedite one. Accepting it and moving forward yourself may just be the thing that draws a WAS back. For they realise they may truly be about to lose you.
That may or may not happen, but of course if you truly have accepted things and keep moving forward, you are a winner anyway.
It's back to that counter-intuitiveness again...
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
