It is acceptance that you will be a-okay because you've been on a journey of self-discovery. This does not mean that you accept that a divorce is the ultimate outcome.
Divorce Busting is just that....applying techniques and strategies to turn around the sinking marital ship.
You feel that you are not DBing because you are no longer breaking a sweat doing it like you did in the first few weeks after arriving here. That is what true DBing is...accepting your W's choices and you are no longer "fighting" against the grain.
This is when situations usually flip. Sit still and watch.