I would think very carefully about entering into marriage.....and would firmly backtrack on any potential proposal until or unless you are absolutely satisfied that things are resolved. That isn't likely to be any time soon would be my guess.
AGREE 150%!! You did nothing wrong! Obviously something was off or you would not have to check the computer! It's intel! Good for you!! This is just my opinion, but you 2 are not married! This is no way to start a marriage. I would be cutting all ties and saying adios!! Have a good life! But that is just me.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"