thanks for the input guys, I'm glad I have had a couple days to let my emotions calm after finding this out. It would have been bad if she would have been around the day I found out. I'll be alright but it breaks my heart to see the person she is now.

Makes me sad the past 11 years are overshadowed by the past year of pain she has inflicted. I'll make it through though.

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15