Nope, you don't have to answer to her for your actions.
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I wanted alone time but then it turned into her trying to talk to me time about my being upset.
From now on, find somewhere else to go before going home, until you are not upset.
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This turned into a discussion about "us" after she found a letter she had written me many years ago on the floor on my side of the bed.
Some of these things could be headed off at the pass, if you know what I mean. Stop being pulled into these R talks. Stop explaining yourself. Let her think whatever.....b/c she will anyway. She is just setting traps.
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She did ask me why I would even still want her.
Script!
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Goals right now: 1. Do not get hopes up, things can change as quick as a blink! 2. Stay detached 3. Work on myself still, work on knowing myself better work on getting out and improving myself 4. Be there for my kids.
Good goals. Now, how do you plan to achieve them?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
