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I'm so sorry to hear about your D - poor girl must have been shocked! I hope she and puss are both doing okay.

Re - your H, it is good that he stepped up to the mark for her and his presence was helpful. That said, try and maintain a balanced perspective of your sitch. He has already cheated multiple times and that is not easily healed from. Have you googled Don Juan affair types? The unfaithful behaviour pattern tends to continue unless there is some earth shattering realisation and change, and a willingness to look within and understand why you have cheated again and again.

Yes you, like many of us, may have work to do. But that work is not all yours, and there would be much work needed from him if the two of you are to have any chance of a successful relationship. Note it, but stay balanced and centred on your own path for now.