Shut it, Shuley. Don't try to force things to happen. Your W is on her own timetable and you are too. Please allow W to process things at her own pace. You two will be at different places and that's okay. In time, you will come together and be on a similar wavelength.
I wouldn't 'force' W to read anything on forgiveness. It has to happen organically. You want to push things on W because YOU are feeling antsy. Chill.
