We all have been where you are and wanted to say the very same exact thing to our spouses. We totally get it.
My frustration with you is that I do not see you visiting other people's threads and learning from others. Then you come here and ask the same questions in 101 different ways when Cadet has rolled out his welcome post with links to resources that help newbies.
All you do is to come straight to your own thread. That's putting on blinders thus depriving yourself of some really valuable help and resources from other posters.
It is as if you are sitting by your own desk in a classroom full of students and being unwilling to participate in activities & discussion. Eventually, people are going to realize that you are not open to ideas, concepts, and strategies to succeed in the classroom.
Again, you will do what you want to do. Even if it means shooting yourself in the foot.
Heck, I even gave you one teeny homework assignment (reading Cali's threads) and you still haven't done it. Your actions speak louder than words you throw up in your own post.
I am trying to understand your obstinate stance here.
