it wasn't until December that she brought anything up about being unhappy (I guess it took that long for her and her counselor to brainwash her into thinking she was unhappy because of me)
YUP she is UNHAPPY and that IMHO is not your problem. YOU DID not break her and YOU can not FIX her.
Telling her any of this is a waste of breath and in fact counter productive.
Until she figures it out herself she will continue to chase her tail around and around in circles.
Stop chasing her tail with her. Get off of that merry-go-round.
