She asked me how I was feeling about it and I told her what it felt like from my point of view to be the victim of infidelity. I told her that it was the cruel. I told her that it was evil. I told her that I also felt sorry for her that she had to live with for the rest of her life knowing what she did to me. I told her that she would have to take it to her grave. I then mentioned briefly the mentality of a cheater (rebellious, cold, selfish). She was really trying to get me to come out with it all. Obviously not the best conversation (although it was very calm) but I felt like it had to be said. At the end I hugged her and I told her that I appreciated her trying to work through all of this with me. After we went to bed. Restarting the clock now. I will not call or text her unless I hear from her.
I understand this was part of the assignment however I would not do that again.
Does getting it all out make you feel better? Does it accomplish anything?
