This is exhausting part 4

[Kembo05]

Need some thoughts/opinions. So my wife and I are legally separated and she is full steam ahead with D, which is fine I am kind of at terms with it. I would be willing to work on our marriage but she would have to show me a lot before I could trust her again.

So this whole time she has emphasized this has been about us and it hasn't been about the 20 year old kid she has had an emotional affair with. I refused to believe that but I couldn't force that issue. So I found out this past weekend that she actually slept with this kid, in my house, in the spare bedroom next to my D2's room while I was out of town. I'm not real shocked by this, more shocked that she would have the audacity to do it while our D2 was sleeping right next to that room. I am also shocked at the timing of this. They slept together about a year ago and it wasn't until December that she brought anything up about being unhappy (I guess it took that long for her and her counselor to brainwash her into thinking she was unhappy because of me)

So I will see wife Wednesday and I want to tell her I know about this. I don't want to yell or be rude or shove it in her face, I just simply want to tell her that I know the truth now and that I hope she can get to the point where she finds true healing and that she can admit that this was never about her and me, it's always been about her and this OM. I don't have any specific intentions, and I know I can be calm about it. I just simply want her to know that I know the truth.

She has done so much to cover this lie and I'm tired of her being able to live with this covered up. So I want her to have to look me in the face while I tell her I know what she did.

Thoughts?