Well Barb, he's had the cultural differences conversation and she says she needs more time. He can't even hold her hand (OMG) and personally, I don't see the fit here but he likes the food lol. I give my advice and snippets from my experience. The rest is up to him. My coffee date messaged me and said "thanks for trying with me but I don't think I'm going to waste any more of your time. I hope you find the person you are looking for" OK, whatever. She had real concerns about dating and relationships with the type of work schedule she had. Although I liked her and would go out with her again I'm not a fan of having to work hard to get to the hard work of a relationship lol so c'est la vie! As for Church Lady, no she's not AM. My best friend, my children and Agnes all think I should be dating her lol. My best friend thinks that asking me to lead the hymn sing with her in front of the whole church was rather "intimate". She and I have a strange relationship which I'm not gonna push any further at this point. She's a pretty awesome little Filipina who has a real zest for life, learning, and God. She makes me smile and has an air of joyfullness about her. She's also pretty independent and takes care of her own sh!t...and my daughters like her As for basketball...it was baseball lol!!!! Thx for checking in on me. Happy cottaging!