He never acknowledges in any way that he's hurt me. Yet he wants to pick up where we left off, sort of, and get nothing but good feelings from me. Which I totally understand and I'd like to get back to that too but like I said, all that other hurtful stuff is in the way. I've been working on fixing *me*... it's the US that needs both of us to get fixed. If that makes sense. I know he's hurting too - I've acknowledged & validated on those points w/him. ... sometimes he seems to be coming out of all that... the fog lifts a little. It's so fragile at this stage - I'm still not sure about some of this stuff. We just want to get out of it, you know?
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
