Originally Posted By: Shimmy
Got into it yesterday and now I'm hearing things like, "I don't know if I can ever be happy with you."

I told her I had needed to know some more details about the affair.

Happiness is internal, it does not take another person to make us happy.

You can not convince her other wise.
By begging, pleading, bargaining and pursuing you slow down the process.

Why do you need to "know" about the affair?
What is that going to DO for YOU?

You need to DETACH.

Right now you can not believe anything she says so even if she tells you something you do or dont want to hear it is likely a lie.
Stop testing this theory.

OK?


Me-70, D37,S36