The World is A-changin'

[Elly4]

Zephyr, I think for the most part it is good news. There is a little bit of unknown in there as they want to monitor him for the next few years to see how it goes. I think my H has problems dealing with that ambiguity as I do as well.

I noticed today that when he was quiet and thinking, I immediately jumped to he was upset at me, while in actuality he was digesting the testing and follow up from today. When I gave him the space, he started talking to me.

I wonder how many times in our M that he felt he couldn't be upset or worried because I would assume I screwed up...something to think about and bring up with my IC.

Very reflective night for me.