Whatever you do....DO NOT BRING DR book with you on the trip. I don't care what you said about the cover. Leave it at home and in a very, very good hiding place that W will never find it.
I am dead serious about this. I have seen far too many M's implode after their WASes discovers the DB site or the book. So sad.
Hopefully the MC is a solutions-based therapist...is she/he? Does she/he talk about solutions instead of allowing you and W to re-hash past hurts and dredging up painful things with no movement in sight?
