Guys, I guess you don't understand what I'm asking. I just want to try to navigate through this process in a way that minimizes the changes of things going sour with my W. It's not only because I want to reconcile. It's also because it is best for the kids for us to be working together and to remain friends. I don't what the scenario where we can't stand being around each other and we drop off the kids in the driveway and speed away. If we can remain on good terms it is best for everyone. That's all.
I think we jump to getting lawyers who are employed to protect each of us individually, it would not help my cause.
I'm going to suggest we find a mediator. I'm going to tell her I want to work together. She has said she wants that too.
