Hi PT - I would love to talk to you some more, our sitch's are very similar. We both signed the petition for the dissolution of marriage. He served me and I had 20 days to respond. We are doing a collaborative divorce so that we will not let the courts decide our fate. Tomorrow is the first mediation meeting.

Maximus - love your screen name btw. He is very impulsive and does tend to act that way in normal situations. I am trying so hard to stay dark and only talk about our son. I "think" it is working because when I do have to talk to him on the phone he is soooooo upbeat and pleasant. It is like talking to my lover all over again and it kills me inside. I match his tone and try my hardest to be a "good neighbor" even though I am dying on the inside.


Me:33 H:36
T:13 years
M:10 years
S4
Separated 05/15
H Filed 06/15