True Wonka, we're living as roommates. But it's more than that. She isn't working much. Does some work at the RH maybe a couple hours a week at most. She does a lot of cooking and cleaning at home. Goes out with friends and does a lot of shopping. I'm running both businesses - hers and mine and bringing in all the income. I feel used.
I so badly want to sell the RH as that will really simplify the next step.
I've been doing a lot of thinking about my future and how I want my life to look. She may be part of the equation or she may not. That will be up to her to decide. Either way I'm fine with it. If she doesn't want to work on our M then I'll just move on. I'm really starting to feel detached, which I believe is a healthy step.
Yeah, I'm this is not a marriage. This is a torturous endurance challenge. And I'm getting ready to step off this train.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
