I feel as though I have failed, my wife has filed and I will be getting the papers in the mail
PT ... YOU did not fail. You stood for your M ... and continue to do so. YOU can not control what she does ... no one can .. that's all on her.
Its not over, till you decide it is. You have only been here a short while, you can still very well continue to DB ... I was on the D table 3 friggin times in 18 months .... still here .. still standing ... even if I were divorced I would be better for it.
PT ... your M does not define you. Your W does not define you... PT defines you. I know it hurts, use that pain to propel you across the broken bridge, continue to focus on you ... let her be for now .. do YOUR thing.
