Go buy the books asap! They will help you out, also read Sandi's lists, the woman is a gold mine of advice. And do not share anything with your wife that you read here or in the books.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016
