There is not doubt that divorce adversely affects children. There is also no doubt that WW or WAS don't care at all about that. They convince themselves in some weird twisted way that it is best for the children because they will be happier and therefore a better parent. They do not think rationally. You can't tell them this because you can not rationalize irrational behavior and thoughts.
I remember my WW saying, "I know it is hard, but you will see, it will be better for all of us in the end, I know it in my heart, trust me."
What a crock of chit.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."