1. Immediately stop all contacting throughout the day.- Do I not call to say good night to kids every night?
2. Immediately withdraw his physical presence from her as much as possible.- My youngest Son is turning 2. I will need to have a small party or take them out to dinner or something. How to handle this?
3. Do not recognize her birthday, Valentines, anniversary, mother's day, or any other holiday by giving her gifts.- What If she wasn’t cheating? Just ignore the day and don’t say a word period? No Card or acknowledgment? Nada?
4. What if the mother is helping her financially to keep them at her house. MIL is like that. It's like nothings changed for wife except she is with Mom enabling her to eat cake. How do I approach this and breakdown walls by detaching/180/etc?
Missing my kids...heard kids and family all day laughing and enjoying the youth sports we did as a family. Hurts so bad...I am trying to figure out how to pray to God for Peace.
Thank You in advance.
1) Why would you NOT call your own kids? Do you have joint custody? See a lawyer if you can not see your own children.
2) Have the party.
3) Whether she was cheating or not she has checked out of your marriage. That is infidelity. I would not reward that type of behavior.
4) Is your wife competent to take care of your children? I think you need to see a lawyer to protect your parental rights.
All your threads are merged - try to stick to one thread until 100 posts. Then you will need to start a new one.
